You might read one of our articles about Flirting phrases before – check here. That article received lots of attention, and the readers have been sending us tons and tons of messages, asking the same question: “How about Foreign girls flirting Vietnamese guys? How to do that?” This article will answer it all. This is a Full Guide to Flirting in Vietnamese. Both men and women can use it. You will flirt like Pro!  

P/S: Even if you have no intention to flirt with any Vietnamese, this article still helps you get more productive conversations with the locals. The flirting part is the bonus. 

 

Before getting started, we’ve got a note for you. The Vietnamese language goes beyond two pronouns “You” and “I” since it has a bunch of pronouns in all conversations. But in this article, we would mention “Ban” (You) – “Toi” (I), or “Anh” (Indicates a Man) – “Em” (Indicates a Woman, or Man if that’s the case for some ). You can choose to use one of the two pairs. The first pair sounds friendly while the second sounds cute and a bit flirty. Normally, “Anh” is used when the man is older than the woman; however, when it comes to flirting, it does not matter. Just go for it, man, call her “em” and you are “anh” no matter what your age is.

Meeting Someone in Person

Pick up lines are lame, and mostly they do not work at all. Instead, you just say hello and have fun.

 

Say Hello …

“Hi, I am ….”

– Chào (em), anh là … (If you’re a man talking to a woman)

– Chào (anh), em là … (If you’re a woman talking to a man)

How to pronounce: 

/Ciao/ ~ like in Italian – /em/ or /n/ – /la/

“Nice to meet you! ”

– Rất hân hạnh được gặp em (If you’re a man talking to a woman)

– Rất hân hạnh được gặp anh (If you’re a woman talking to a man)

How to pronounce:

/Rat/ – /han/ – /hank/ – /duck/ – /gap/ – /m/ or /n/

Then, the question you might be undoubtedly asked when you’re out of the town is:

“Where are you from?” – Anh/ em đến từ đâu?

How to pronounce:

/n/ or /m/ – /dense/ – /too/ – /dou/

* den sounds like /dense/ but without /s/

You can respond with:

“I’m from the USA/England/Canada/etc.” – Anh/ Em đến từ Mỹ/ Anh/ Canada/ etc.

“I really like …Hanoi…, especially its …food….” – “Anh/em rất thích ..Hà Nội .. Đặc biệt là ..đồ ăn..”

If you meet someone after reading this article, you owe me a drink.

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Anh Sao Bridge (Cầu Ánh Sao)

Decorated with thousands upon thousands of LEDs, Cau Anh Sao is a wonderful place to bring your special one along. Stroll among the ever-changing colors and the water fountains surrounding the bridge, and indulge in an atmosphere only seen in Korean dramas. It doesn’t matter if you’re on a first date or getting engaged, Cau Anh Sao is a perfect destination for you and your partner.

Address: District 7

Saigon Cruise Ship

Have a delectable meal on the Saigon Cruise Ship, as it slowly passes the Bach Dang River. Let the cool breezy air hit you, and mellow classical music serenade both of you as the warmth from your hearts settle. Simply delightful. (Tip: Always choose the top deck, as the two bottom decks are too loud and chaotic for any romance)

Address: Bach Dang Wharf, Ton Duc Thang Street, District 1

Turtle Lake (Hồ Con Rùa)

Ho Con Rua – or Turtle Lake – is an artificial lake in the heart of the city. Well, was – it’s been drained, leaving behind a shallow pond of sorts. You might think that such a location is unsuitable for romance, but alas, you have made a mistake. Come here in the evening, and join the hordes of young Vietnamese couples enjoying an intimate conversation over some banh trang nuong – Vietnamese pizza, whilst being surrounded by blazing motorbike horns. It’s a quintessentially Saigon experience.

Address: District 3

Notre Dame Cathedral

The younger sibling of the famous Notre Dame in Paris, the Notre Dame in Saigon is pretty impressive in itself. A beautiful brick cathedral, the Notre Dame is often used as a backdrop for lovers taking their pictures, or even married couples who get their wedding photos taken here. Hold each other’s hand as you watch the pigeons soar from the little park in front of the cathedral, or come inside and marvel at the colonial architecture masterpiece.

Address: 1 Commune de Paris, Ben Nghe Ward, District 1

C’est Moi Café

One of the very few cafés left in this city that still retains a quiet charm to it, C’est Moi is a French-influenced romantic hotspot. Cozy up with an amour here, savour the fine classical music, and enjoy Parisian coffee and pastries. The food and drinks are super nice, and while the price is a little bit steep, you get what you pay for. C’est Moi is a little hideaway, for those of you tired of the loud metropolis.

Address: 126F Phan Dang Luu Str., Ward 3, Phu Nhuan District

Trois Gourmands

The French sure know their romance. Situated in a quiet villa in District 2, Trois Gourmands delivers on all fronts. A romantic location, exquisite French-Indochinese fusion cuisine – with dishes such as foie gras spring rolls, lamb shoulder or sautéed beef with truffles – and a fine selection of wine and cheeses to accompany your meals will make the dining experience at Trois Gourmands heavenly. Book a romantic candlelit dinner with your loved one, or choose to dine amidst the stars. The price is rather expensive, but again, you get what you pay for.

Address: 39 Tran Ngoc Dien Str., Thao Dien Ward, District 2

Ho Chi Minh City Opera House

Ah, now we’re talking about the highlife. Hosting events such as concerts, plays, operas and orchestral performances, the Opera House is a wonderful night out for a couple. (Inquire their website for any future dates) Sit back, and marvel at a splendid show. And if you’re not in the mood to pay top money for a show, there’s a stall that sells peach tea for only 15 000VND near the Opera House – so grab a tea or two, and mingle in the crowd. Whatever you choose to do, you’ll definitely enjoy it.

Address: 7 Lam Son Square, Ben Nghe Ward, District 1
Website: http://www.hbso.org.vn

Saigon Saigon Bar

A timeless classic for those looking to impress their beau, Saigon Saigon’s colonialistic influences and inviting atmosphere is perfect for couples. Find yourself an intimate spot in the corner, or take a seat in the rooftop courtyard overlooking bustling Lam Son Square. Live music begins from 9 pm, and Saigon Saigon has a fine selection of cocktails, beers, and liquors, as well as an extensive dining menu.

Share a delightfully luscious Bloody Mary, or the sultry and aptly-named Sex on the Beach, and let go of your inhibitions. Who knows what will come?

Address: 19 Lam Son Square, Ward 5, District 1

Chieu Cafe

Trinh Cong Son’s love songs have long transcended the realm of a simple melody – they have become something entirely different, something that evokes deep, raw emotions that are best left untouched. And what better way to bask in the purity of such emotions, especially with someone you love, than over a cup of coffee? Come to Chieu, a quaint little cafe tucked inside an alleyway on Cao Thang. Founded in 1966, the humble cafe has been heralded as a haven for Trinh lovers ever since. Everything here is a reminder of the good old days, from the wooden walls to the antique coffee cups. Sit on one of the old-timey chairs, listen to Trinh Cong Son melodies over the gramophone, and feel the ambiance surround you.

Address: 124/1, Cao Thang Street, Cao Thắng, District 3

Rooftop Pool Bar at Hotel des Arts Saigon

If you want to have a great time with your partner in a romantic bar, you had better go to the Rooftop Pool Bar. It is a fantastic bar lying up on the roof of the Hotel des Arts Saigon. This destination has not only a large swimming pool but it also offers all the good cocktails and light snacks along with the lively vibes coming from the lounge music and spectacular views of the city.

Address: Floor 24 Hotel Des Arts Saigon, 76 – 78 Nguyễn Thị Minh Khai, District 3

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Consequently, writing this article on behalf of thousands of Vietnamese girls out there, I am so down just to give you a favor in “How to flirt like a local?” – Let’s take a look at the most basic flirting phases below.

1. “Em có bạn trai chưa?” – “Do you have a boyfriend?”

/m – co: – ban – dzai – dzu-o/?

This is a great start once you find that girl interesting and want to get to know more about her relationship status.

2. “Mình đi chơi nhé?” – “Let’s hang out sometime!”

/min – dee – dzo-i – yeah/!

This is sort of asking out and can be seen as an absolute effect if you want to spend more time together. A good night hug or text will definitely work as well.

3. “Em thật đặc biệt!” – “You are so special!”

/m – tat – dac – bee-ik/!

Apparently, this compliment will help you score 10 out of 10 when talking to a girl you like.

4. “Anh nhớ em!” – “I miss you!”

/n – yo – m/!

After some time knowing each other, you saying “anh nhớ em” to her is kind of an indirect way to let her know your feelings.

5. “Em thấy anh như thế nào?” – “What do you think about me?”

/m – tei – n – yuw – te – now/?

Wanna know what’s her feeling toward you after a while? Go for this!

6. “Anh thích em!” – “I like you!”

/n – tik – m/

A perfect shot once you think it’s the right time to open up.

7. “Anh yêu em!” – “I love you!”

/n – eww – m/

Obviously, it is applied when you find her your soul mate.

Wait! Is it a little bit rushing for you? No worries, let me walk you through one step each first.

Let’s start with common basic greetings:

1. “Em tên gì vậy?” – “What is your name?”

/m – teng – j – vei/?

2. “Em sống ở đâu?” – “Where do you live?”

/m – shong – o: – dow/?

The Vietnamese feel free to ask their hometowns and current cities for the first time they meet.

3. “Sở thích của em là gì?” – “What are your hobbies?”

/sho – tik – ku-ah – m – la – j/?

4. “Em làm nghề gì?” – “What is your occupation?”

/m – lam – ge-ih – j/?

5. “Số em là gì?” – “What’s your phone number?”

/sou – m – la – j/?

How is that? Do you feel like learning some more basic relevant vocabulary somehow helping you gain more confidence?

Let’s give it a go:

1. Hôn /hon/ : (to) kiss
2. Nắm tay /na-im – tei/ : (to) hold hands
3. Ôm /om/ : (to) hug
4. Hẹn hò /hen – ho:/ : (to) go on a date
5. Bạn gái /ban – ga-i/ : girlfriend
6. Bạn trai /ban – ja-i/ : boyfriend

Good luck with these magic lines. A little more tip for you, if she finds you trying hard to talk to her in her native language, you can definitely have a bigger chance! She would definitely think you are such a romantic man.

Otherwise, in case you are seeing a Vietnamese girl and aspiring to learn more, please leave a comment down below and let us take care the rest for you!

P/S: If you are a girl and would like to flirt a Vietnamese man, just change all the words “anh” into “em”, and vice versa.

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